• Helping men write their life story in a patriarchal world that tries to write men’s stories for them.

Through lines are the connecting dots, patterns, and common themes we see in everything—the planet, history, culture, politics, stories. They give meaning. Yet we often overlook through lines in our own life.

Meet Spencer

To quote Ted Lasso, “Taking on a challenge is a lot like riding a horse, isn’t it? If you’re comfortable while you’re doing it, you’re probably doing it wrong.” I believe half the challenge is asking for help. And if that’s why you’re here, then welcome. Life is a beautiful mess.

Born in a fundamentalist Christian culture, into a family in which abuse rolled down generations, I spent most of my life running from my story. I traversed the globe as I wrote and photographed the stories of people and places around the world. I traveled in search of the type of meaning, worth, connection, and authenticity that I could only find within myself. I now help men break free from old patterns, build deeper connections, and step into more authentic versions of who they are.

The Through Line Approach

  • Depth Psychology

    I'm trained in Depth Psychology as a certified coach through the Inner Compass Academy by depth psychotherapist and author Vanessa Bennett.

  • Positive Psychology

    Soon to complete my M.S. in Positive Psychology, tenets of positive psychology—like emotion regulation, social connections, and meaning—inform my work. 

  • Mind-Body

    Healing and change are only as powerful as the mind-body connection we cultivate within ourselves.

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